Hi, I’m Leo Blanke

RELATIONSHIP & INTIMACY COACH

I help singles and couples develop skills for thriving connections so they can experience passionate, lasting love.

My passion for helping people in their relationships emerged from my own deep yearning to feel seen, loved and accepted.

I always struggled to connect intimately, stuck in patterns of avoidance and fear, running from love. I kept myself safe from the things that I actually wanted, terrified of being rejected. The pain of my unmet desires inspired me to understand the science of relationships.

I WAS DETERMINED TO LEARN THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE AND TOOLS FOR CONNECTION, SO I COULD FINALLY FEEL A SENSE OF BELONGING.

Now, through my own growth, I guide others on that same path, because I believe everyone deserves to feel truly loved and embraced.

I’ve had my share of toxic dynamics, entangling in relationships without the tools or self-awareness to build a healthy foundation. I became stuck in codependency, losing my sense of self-worth.

Even after leaving that relationship, I struggled to find joy in my newfound freedom—I needed to reconnect with myself.

I reflected on my journey and applied everything I had learned about intimacy, communication, and emotional connection from years of personal development.

In hindsight, one truth stood out: connection isn’t about grand gestures or perfectly curated moments. It’s about the daily, intentional practices that create safety for both partners to feel seen, heard, respected, and appreciated.

When I reclaimed my value, I could finally step into a love that embraced and celebrated my growth.

You see…

Men and women value different things, and understanding this has become central to my work.

These principles provide a solid framework for the couples who want to build conscious, lasting love. They provide a practical value set for deep, sustainable relationships—and I’m passionate about helping couples apply these tools in fun, interactive ways.

I’ve seen firsthand the transformative power of love and connection when approached with care, maturity, and a willingness to do the work. I remember one couple on the brink of separation—feeling misunderstood, trapped in endless loops, and devastated by the lack of intimacy.

They were ready to give up. But after a workshop with me, they broke through barriers, rewired old patterns, and reconnected in ways they hadn’t thought possible—culminating in lovemaking like never before. From that moment on, they committed to showing up for their relationship

They’ve since discovered the power of habits and communication frameworks that nurture a thriving partnership, allowing them to feel truly seen, heard, and supported by one another.